Mar 11

You have to be POSITIVE!

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During the emotionally draining journey of separation and divorce,¬†thinking positive can often seem easier said than done, but it really does help…because what you believe is usually what you create.

For instance, if you believe…

 

  • This separation is stretching my capacity for patience and understanding
  • This separation is just too¬†stressful
  • This separation is just too draining
  • This separation is just too difficult
  • My spouse is deliberately sabatoging the negotiating
  • My spouse just wants me to suffer and be miserable
    Then guess what? It will be! All of the above mentioned situations can and will be true

    But what if you try a difference approach… what if you start believing with all your heart and soul and imagine that¬†….

     

  • This separation¬†requires patience, but the more quiet time I take to nurture myself, even if it’s 5 minutes a day, the more patience I seem to have
  • ¬†There is a lesson here and I need to learn from it
  • This separation is¬†stressful, but I am learning to cope with¬†my stress every day and I can conquer it
  • As I become more calm so I can respond to the separation rather than react to it
  • I am the boss of me and I can choose who I want to be and how I want to behave
  • I am a role model for¬† my children
  • I am a strong, decent and evolved human being
    Remember, the story you tell will become your reality.  If you believe that your separation is just too stressful and requires an impossible amount of patience and that there is just too much venom in the given situation, then you will attract a stressful, toxic situation requiring more patience than you can muster.

Imagine your separation being a smooth transition into a new chapter of your life.

Imagine your children having two loving parents living in two seperate homes

Imagine your life being complete where you can move forward and not be stuck in the past

We have a review mirror in our car so that we can check back on  occasion so see what we have left behind  but its the huge view in front of us that we have to focus on if we want to get there safely. 

Constantly dwelling on and in the past does not move you forward…..so imagine what you want your new life to look like and focus on that.¬†

You have the choice to create your own reality, imagine what you want it to look like, believe it will look like that and you would have created your own destiny.

 So what is a better feeling thought you can tell yourself today?


 

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